The River: Writing Challenge Day 19

Refined:  this is a word that has no application in my life.  I can identify nothing that fits the word "refined" in my life.  Not my speech, nor my taste in entertainment, nor my personal style, nor my favorite foods.  I have pretty good manners, if you can excuse the occasional f-bomb, but that's about as far as I can stretch my imagination to fit this word onto me.